It’s that time of year again. Your child is heading to school, backpack and lunchbox firmly in place, to join their classmates for school. While your child may or may not have back to school anxiety, you may have reservations of your own.
To ease your conscience, many Preschool Directors are willing to sit down and answer any questions you may have about your child, his/her interactions with new classmates, and beyond. To get you started, Jump! has compiled a list of smart questions to ask as your child starts school.
Questions to Ask Your Child's Teacher During Back to School Night
What is your philosophy?
If you haven’t already gone on a private tour, consider asking the preschool director to accompany you around the center, personally meeting the teachers your child will interact with, and asking your child’s main teacher their philosophy, training, and qualifications. This will ensure that you have a solid idea of the environment your child will spend the next nine months in. Not to mention, if you have a relationship with your child’s teacher, your child is bound to feel more comfortable because of that connection.
How do you discipline your students?
Discipline is one of the most important facets of preschool education. How does a teacher focus on the strengths and weaknesses of a child? If one child is unruly, how will the teacher react? Will they lash out, discipline them with anger, give the silent treatment, or passively ignore it?
Since discipline is essential, we recommend you brief your child’s teacher on how your child reacts to discipline. Perhaps he/she shuts down at harsh discipline, or only responds to “tough love.” In either case, it’s very important to make sure your child succeeds in a way that’s best for them, and by fostering a relationship with the teacher, you are ensuring that success.
What are your academic standards?
Depending on which level your child is at, academics may be assessed loosely, or, if your child is at a more transitionary phase where grades are introduced, some insight will be useful. If this teacher is known to be tough on academics, you will have enough preparation at home to help with homework and assignments. Or, perhaps your child loves a challenge – in which case, you can ask the teacher to keep an eye on his progress to prevent boredom.
What can I do to facilitate academic and social success?
It’s always important to know how to answer the age-old question: “Mom, can you help me with my homework?” Your child’s teacher can provide valuable insights to help retention, knowledge, and learning progress at home. Perhaps this means challenging your child with mental math flashcards, or writing exercises. The best way to find out is to ask.
Do you have any references?
It’s always important to connect with other parents that have had successful experiences – they can act as a support system for you and make the transition for you and your child much easier. If you’re experiencing some doubt, helpful references can clear your misgivings and rest easily that your child is getting the care he/she needs.
In all, the most important reality to face is that your child will be successful – your job in asking questions is to discover how to continue that success.